But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere. Peacemakers who sow in peace raise a harvest of righteousness.
James 3:17-18

Thursday, May 23, 2013

Handmade Gift Bow//Step by Step Instructions

I know most everyone has been thinking about the tragedy in Oklahoma this week. Honestly, I can't imagine what it might feel like to lose every single possession, family photos, treasured notes and cards from my children...that, on top of losing your home. Can't fathom it.
There was a sweet 94-year-old woman from Oklahoma on the news the other day. She had suffered the loss of her home back in the nineties from another tornado, and then a second home this week. This woman was smiling! Her face bore the bright peace and contentedness that accompanies those who have endured the trials of life and come out stronger. With a twinkle in her eyes, she told the reporter that God had been with her the first time, and He was with her now. Period. End of story. That was all she needed. I've been thinking about that all week. How I long for that to be true for me, too.

While I keep those affected by the tornado in my mind and heart, this post is actually about something lighthearted. And cute....how to make an easy gift bow! My mother has made these my entire life and I just figured everyone on the planet also knew about them. I guess not! People constantly question me about them at parties and such, so I though I'd share a quick step-by-step so you can make your own gift bow.



This is the perfect way to use up those leftover pieces of wrapping paper! You'll want a good sized square or rectangle since you'll be folding it in half. As you can see, no need to be nice and neat!
I cut through the double layer to make the strips -- you can certainly open the square back up and cut strips individually if you prefer. Be careful not to cut too close to the fold at the top.

Forgive this lousy shot -- the strip of paper should be taut, and it looks pretty slack in the photo. Basically, you're going to hold the top of the strip by the fold with your thumb and index finger (to keep it in place) while you run the edge of the scissor blade down the back side of the paper to form the curl.

The tightness of the curl depends on how tightly you pull the blade down the paper. If there is a lot of tension in the strip as you pull the scissor blade down hard, the curl will be very tight. Loosen up and the curls loosen up. You can see the difference below.

Don't worry about tearing off a strip or two (or five) -- it happens a lot until you get the hang of it. Here it is after you've curled all the paper strips.

Now fold the rectangle in half.

The gift bow will be adorable on its own, but if you want to add a little something, curl some long pieces of craft ribbon, holding onto the center. Staple through all the layers in the center, or place the ribbons on the folded bow and staple through all layers.

Fold the wrapping paper rectangle in half again and secure the ribbons to the center with either tape or a staple.

The last thing to do is fold one more time, enclosing the ribbons in the center. Staple again to secure this last fold (tape works too). And that's it! You did it!

I usually put a piece of tape on one side of the bow to attach it to the gift -- sometimes the bulk makes it a little tricky and you have to play around with it. 
It looks so pretty when you're all done!

Frugal and festive...win win!


This bow works well with a taller, vertical gift, too -- cut the trips longer and thinner for a cascading effect!

Monday, May 20, 2013

Doggie Birthdays and First Bouquets

Friday was just an all-around big day in our house! The festivities continued late into the night...

Well, no, not really. But we did have golden cupcakes to celebrate Ryder's 2nd birthday! And Bill totally spoiled him and got him special puppy ice-cream cups. All this and he still would not wear the Birthday Sombrero.


Jonah held it over his head and this is the closest we got. HA If this photo doesn't scream "Heeelllpp meeeeee" I don't know what does! And disregard those nasty socks in the background, mm'kay? Thanks.


So cute! He was quite the eager beaver during his little party! Sweetie dog. I'm almost ready to forgive him for trampling my brand new plant. And taking a chunk out of my favorite sandals. Almost....

Speaking of plants, our very first bouquet in our new house!!!

My niece was checking on the kitties while we were away in Virginia last month and accidentally locked herself out of the house, so she went next door to ask for help. Our neighbors here are the best, so we thought we'd bring this over as a little thank-you. It may look a little meager, but I was still excited about it! Isabelle was a big help holding the jar of water, and she only spilled it twice.  ;)


We've got a super busy week ahead of us! Daisy Troop and a baseball game are on tonight's agenda. I love it! Happy Monday!

Friday, May 17, 2013

Today is going to be a VERY BIG DAY!

Long story short, we met with our social worker for yet another home study update this morning-- which went very well-- and she gave us some information that may change everything (for the good)!! Can't share more right now but I'm smiling so big my cheeks are hurting! Isabelle and I danced and twirled through the loop inside the house and I haven't felt this optimistic or full of hope in a little while now. I feel so free! Free for possibilities, free for all that God has in store for our growing family, free to let go of the expectations and the time frames and all those what ifs!

God placed this desire in our hearts and He will be faithful to the very end. What, then, do I have to be afraid of? You guys, adoption is scary and wonderful and beautiful and full of ups and downs, but God is bigger than any detail and all details...everything! We would be so grateful if you could offer up a prayer on our behalf as we continue on this winding path again- thank you!  =)


Tuesday, May 14, 2013

In the past 24 hours I've...


Every now and then I like to record all the things that make up a day in my life as a wife and Mom to my 13-, 12-, 10- and 6-years-old crew. I will probably faint from excitement by the end! Here we go, and in no particular order.

In the past 24 hours I've...

  • reorganized 3 sets of bureau drawers
  • used a plunger (ewwwwww! just ew!)
  • listened to a handsome boy's music
  • completed 6 loads of laundry AND put away all 6 loads
  • swapped out winter clothes for summer ones
  • taken 8 walks (and only one was the I've-got-to-get-out-of-here  kind!)
  • played fetch with the dog
  • watched Isabelle zip up and down the street
  • dismantled 1/4 of the new rock wall
  • tripped over both a large and small rock (while dismantling said rock wall)
  • spackled nail holes in the wall
  • edited pictures for the yet-to-be-painted frames hanging in the family room
  • worked on a new tutorial for a little girl's nightgown
  • asked a friend for a favor
  • read a few chapters in a library book (that I noticed on the shelf and got because the author's name is also Bethany)
  • wished I had my piano here (soon!)
  • watched Dora
  • chatted with neighbors
  • pampered a sick child
  • got groceries in record time
  • still not put away all the groceries
  • smiled at cute pigtails
  • made fruit salad for the kids' school snack
  • reorganized my closet
  • dug holes in front of the house
  • taken away privileges for poor behavior
  • calmed down Ryder as the Kindergarten bus approached (every.single.time)
  • danced up and down over some new seedlings that sprouted
  • resisted the urge to buy another plant/flowers (mostly because I had to rush home to sick Caleb)
  • watched Isabelle tumble, cartwheel and flip
  • had the most fun chatting with the other gymnastic Moms!
  • {finally} hung up some of Isabelle's things from our old house
  • decided to take the plunge and try to make Hushpuppies (out of my Laura Ingalls Wilder cookbook!)
  • ate my Mother's Day M&Ms (small bag, people!)
  • held hands with the one I love
  • seen Robert Downey Jr pretend to pee in his Ironman suit
  • enjoyed a leg/foot massage by not one but two children!
  • helped a friend with a favor
  • finished an order for 3 matching nightgowns...eek! So cute!
  • done 5+ tick checks (only one found, but not embedded...still so gross!)
  • met a filmmaker at the pond (that outta-here walk) and discussed the Northern Pass
  • giggled watching Isabelle helping me fold towels and washcloths
  • made 3 lists
  • spoke harshly with a child but later shared a sweet moment together
  • prayed for my friends, family, and a few people I'll never know but read their stories and felt compelled to pray
  • asked God for help and thanked Him for my life











(sorry about the watermark - I've recently seen some pictures of Isabelle online and it really creeps me out)

What did your day look like?
Hope it was a great one!

Sunday, May 12, 2013

The Best Mother's Day

In our family, Mother's Day is more a weekend-long event rather than just one day. And why not? Mothers work really hard! This morning I woke up bright and early with a big smile on my face, reflecting on the joys and blessings in my life.

And then I had myself a little moment. I think I was just feeling overly emotional because this adoption hasn't been going the way I'd thought it would, and I just got so upset. I kept telling myself to snap out of it and put on a happy face for everyone, but that only made me cry harder. (Plus, after being brave and asking to have my haircut fixed yesterday and thinking it looked really cute when she finished only to find this morning that when I tried to do it, it is three or four inches shorter in the back than what I'd thought, and with the humidity and rain it simply wasn't going to obey me anyway. Then everything I tried on looked and felt awful. It was pretty bad.) So needless to say, we were a little tardy for church this morning, and that dark little voice inside me was egging me on to throw my hands up in desperation and simply not go. Then the enemy would have won and it was only 7:55 AM, people! I would have missed out for sure! And what kind of message would I have been sending to my children? It was a wonderful service and we had a great time.
I never remember to get a picture after church but before the kids change into play clothes. And no, it isn't like to happen before church!

And I've been pampered with glorious foot rubs, back scratches, homemade waffles, beautiful cards, my favorite candy (peanut M&Ms and a Peppermint Patty!!!), quiet time to read and sew, and long, leisurely walks all day long! Right now on my counter there are a dozen sheets of pasta that Bill made, which will become homemade Seafood Scampi for dinner. Now that's love!

Happy Mother's Day, Mom! And to all the wonderful mothers in my life and in our family, enjoy your special day! Please know that I'm still praying for those of you who ache to be mothers or who have endured the loss of a child. God sees you and loves you and wants to give you more than you can even imagine!


I was just about Isabelle's age in this picture with my beautiful Mom. In our matching dresses of course!  =)

Friday, May 10, 2013

44 Years

Isabelle and I just got back from my parents' house where we'd gone to wish them both a Happy Anniversary  -- 44 YEARS! 

That's a tremendous accomplishment and I'm so thankful for my Mom and Dad!

Little Miss and I traipsed through aisle after aisle of darling plants and flowers in search of just the right one for Mimi. Oh wait, that is how I had pictured it in my mind. The cold hard reality may have resembled something a little different, something shall we say, like a drooling, whining, Nervous Nellie of a dog yanking his poor people along like helpless rag dolls through the outdoor displays. Silly dog.

We settled on purple petunias and a hot pink geranium, two of my mother's favorite colors.

I'm sure she would have loved them had she actually been at home when we showed up, ha ha! My Dad said she was out visiting friends (love that!) so we hung out with Grampy, who had been hard at work all morning repainting all the ceilings. He said he'd better clean himself up so she'd go out to dinner with him tonight. HaHaHa

So here we are back at home, Ryder is sprawled out by my feet as I type, Caleb is gearing up for his game tonight, Ethan will have a sleepover with Bill's parents, I'm thinking up something little but special for Jonah and me if I put Isabelle to bed early, I'm trying to finish up some sewing orders, finish the laundry, get snacks made, and saving the best for last...deciding which sides to order from our favorite Chinese food joint for Date Night In with my man. I just happened to pick up Friday Night Lights, Season One last week...  ;o)

Have a wonderful weekend and Happy Mother's Day!
I hope this {see below} is part of my weekend plans...

And for those of you who ache to be mothers, I'm praying for you- God has wonderful things in store for you, but waiting can be so hard! Don't give up hope!


Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee; because he trusteth in thee.
Isaiah 26:3